Joining and searching are always free. Upgrade to VIP or VIP+ whenever you feel ready to unlock messaging and full features. There is no deadline, and no pressure.
Free
Create your profile, browse members across the community and receive daily match suggestions, all at no cost and with no card required.
Unlock unrestricted messaging and the full discovery toolkit. Connect with anyone, at your own pace.
Everything in VIP, plus boosted visibility and priority placement so you stand out to the people most likely to connect with you.
Prices shown are standard monthly rates in GBP and approximate USD. Weekly, quarterly, annual and promotional options, plus pricing in a wide range of currencies including EUR, AUD, CAD and more, are available when you join. See all options at checkout.
Is it really free to join Widowers or Widows?
Yes. Creating a profile and browsing other members is completely free, with no credit card required. You can take as long as you like exploring before you decide whether to upgrade.
What do I get with VIP membership?
VIP unlocks unrestricted messaging so you can write to as many members as you like, advanced search filters, exclusive chat room access, the ability to rewind swipes, and a full view of everyone who has liked your profile. It gives you the complete toolkit for making connections at your own pace.
What is the difference between VIP and VIP+?
VIP+ includes everything in VIP and adds boosted profile visibility across the platform, exclusive curated matches, priority placement for your messages and likes, and access to the Super Match add-on. If you want to be seen by more people and make a stronger first impression, VIP+ is the top tier.
Can I cancel my membership at any time?
Yes. There is no long-term commitment. You can cancel from your account settings at any time and you will retain access until the end of your current billing period.
Are there other subscription lengths and currencies available?
Yes. Weekly, quarterly, annual and promotional options, plus pricing in a wide range of currencies, are all available when you join. The prices shown on this page are the standard monthly rates in GBP and approximate USD.